When will it get better?

Honestly . . . I don’t think anyone can give you an answer to that. They can guess and even make an educated one at that. The reality is no one knows but there’s enough data and experiences out there to say that it will get better if you do certain things.

So, what are those things? It’s a little different for everyone. At least that’s my personal opinion. It certainly seems like diet, exercise, social connections and personal growth all play a role no matter what. Other things may be money or the comfort it brings, achievement, recognition, success, routine, etc.

It’s really up to you to figure it out. That can be discouraging if you let it be but knowing that you are in control should also be encouraging. People can give you advice and lead you into certain directions but be careful that they don’t take advantage of you and your situation. That doesn’t mean be fearful and it doesn’t mean don’t trust anyone. It seems to be a reality of life (a sucky one!) that people will take advantage of you and honestly, you’ll probably take advantage of other people. You have to learn how to recognize it in both cases and then correct it. You’ll figure it out though! Just hang in there!